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Day to Day Office
1mo
Caught in an Office Affair
I am 30 yrs old male working at a big corporate firm. Recently i got into a secret affair with a colleague who is married with kids. We have been seeing each other for months now but things are getting complicated.
I am starting to catch feelings but she keeps telling me to keep it casual and not complicate things. However her husband recently got suspicious and now i am afraid we are getting too close to getting caught.
Should I end it now or keep going despite the risks? This is a mess i know but i am stuck. What should i do??

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udtateer
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Don't hookup where you Vlookup

lightbringer
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[udtateer](username) lol. 😂. Nice dialog

chaipakoda
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[udtateer](username) lolll 😂😂

soanpari
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[udtateer](username) 🥲 ab to ker liyaa.. ab kay kru?

duskykhichdi
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[soanpari](username) move on

soanpari
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[duskykhichdi](username) aur wo kaise karu yeh bhi bata do

faithfuldhokla
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[udtateer](username) 😂😂😂

duskykhichdi
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[soanpari](username) search another candidate and isk affair ko terminate kr do, she won't leave her kids for you and you won't accept her kids with you and that's not right also
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udtateer
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[soanpari](username) sbse phle to ye btao kon mard apna naam soanpari rakhta hai, shak to mujhe tum pr zyada hai

soanpari
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[udtateer](username) abbe naam toh naam hai mai kuch bhi rakhu tujhe kya ... lagta hai tere pe bohot khali time hai tabhi timepass karne aaya hai yaha
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supremefizzy
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Brother, get out before it wrecks all three lives. She's made her intentions clear ‘casual.’ You’re catching feelings, and that’s a ticking bomb. Trust me, heartbreak is better than scandal

brightstrawberry
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[supremefizzy](username) yeah you’re right. It’s just harder than it looks to walk away.

superbblackbird
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[brightstrawberry](username) . But use that difficulty as your signal it means this isn’t healthy.
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a group manager
1mo
Be careful, her husband might be on this forum…… anyways remember that if you are ever caught her what will stop her husband from storming your office and bashing you up. Also it is easy for her to cry rape if she gets caught and for you it will be extremely difficult to prove that it was a mutual affair. Be very careful and stop it.

soanpari
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[a group manager](username) i know her well wo aisi insaan nahi hai aisa nahi karegi
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gloriousmalpua
1mo
An Ops Executive
You're playing with fire, man. You will get burned. She has a family. Imagine being in her husband's shoes. Walk away with your dignity while you still can.

soanpari
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[gloriousmalpua](username) i know i know but mai kar nahi pa raha yrr its too difficult

solidmaguro
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[cleantonic](username) ga*nd tod di jaayegi. I hope teri behen ka husband bhi aise hi kare.

soanpari
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[solidmaguro](username) kisi mai dam nahi koi ga*nd tod de aakhir koi zor zabardasti se nahi kara maine kuch dono ki taraf se mutual tha
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solidmaguro
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[soanpari](username) Pata lagne de uske pati ko. Wo agar seedha hua to bhale hi chodd de. Wrna tu fridge deserve krta hai. Bc when you know she is married, tu kar kya raha hai. Usko chodd - tu kya kr raha hai behemchd

soanpari
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[solidmaguro](username) sunn pehle to gaali mat de .. i know maine jo kara wo galat and but mujhe solution chahiye iss cheez ka tabhi yeh post banai hai maine

yoursaady
1mo
ex -
HDFC Bank on behalf of HDBFS
[soanpari](username) only one suggestion she is ready to burn her hands but will stay casual with any1. U might not be the only one. It's difficult not impossible. U will cry for a month or 2 but please bro u r being a reason for breaking her house .... Bhale hi she is the main culprit

soanpari
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[yoursaady](username) she is not the main culprit meri bhi galti hai aur mai nikalna chahta hu iss situation se lekin nikal nahi pa raha its too difficult

ratracerebel
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[soanpari](username) teri g₹3nd tutni chahiye publicly aur us neech ki bhi!
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duskygiraffe
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I hope your future wife will have an affair, at that time you can suggest the tips to your wife's boyfriend to keep it secret 😂

chaipakoda
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[duskygiraffe](username) ohh godd 😂😂

soanpari
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[duskygiraffe](username) yaha khali meri galati hoti to mai maanta bhi... dono side se hai na.. mai to single hi hu married to vo hai usko sochna chahiye naa

busyginger
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[duskygiraffe](username) 😂😂 what a reply!!!!!

soanpari
author
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[busyginger](username) get lost

a senior executive
2w
[duskygiraffe](username) Husband's ko sab pta rehta hai..gyan devta😂

soanpari
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[a senior executive](username) toh agar uske husband ko pata hai toh kyu nahi aaya fir mujhe peetne
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sudhirnripat74
1mo
YHI Ruk ja bhai nahi to tumahri kahani crime petrol me aayegi ...

an operations executive
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[sudhirnripat74](username) 😂

surprisingcelery
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[sudhirnripat74](username) 😆

soanpari
author
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[sudhirnripat74](username) chalo kahi toh naam hoga mera 😂😂

nxnja
2w
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Have some sense of shame
It'll work

soanpari
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[nxnja](username) kya galat hai isme?? kisi ko pasand karna galat hai ??

nxnja
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[soanpari](username) yes, if it's someone else's wife
If you both truly love each other, tell her to get divorced and marry each other.
I'm interested in knowing how you'll react if I have an affair with your wife.
Kisiko pasand karna galat nahi hai na 😉
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brutalrealist
1mo (edited)
currently not working
Frankly speaking, you are like a pros*****e for her. She won't leave anyone for you as she is having a child, her parents, her husband, her in laws and no one want drama in life when they are working. And tum jaoge dusra timepass ready hoga uske liye marwane tum raho ya na raho.
So its upto you... This casual affair is sugercoated l*st btw, not love.

duskygiraffe
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[lyricaltank](username) that guy thinking from his d*ck and thinks that he's in love😂

soanpari
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[lyricaltank](username) obviously bhai mere liye vo kisi ko nahi choregi also i never said it's love, casual affair hi hai. per na vo nikal pa rhi hai isse na hi mai usi ka suggestion manga hai

soanpari
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[duskygiraffe](username) 😂pehle pdhna seekhlo love ki to baat hi nahi kri hai... tumhare lie hota hoga love itna casual

brutalrealist
1mo
currently not working
[soanpari](username) Accenture Gurgaon me ho kya bhai?

soanpari
author
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[lyricaltank](username) nahi toh ... aur iss baat ka meri problem se kya relation hai?

soanpari
author
1mo
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[lyricaltank](username) dumb ho kya padhna nahi aata kya saaf saaf likha hai works at oracle

brutalrealist
3w
currently not working
[soanpari](username) Tu Soanpari naam ka male hai?
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a lead business analyst
1mo
End it ASAP. I will go a step further and would suggest you to switch company as well.

magicallyangel
1w
currently not working
End ittt brother !! Future me apki wife ke sath esa kuch hua to kesa lagegaa apko 🫠

soanpari
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[magicallyangel](username) mai abhi future ki nahi soch raha ... abhi mere liye mera present zyada matter karta hai

greatdaytoday
5d
currently not working
Bhai tu chu**ya hai !
Apni need satisfy karni hai tho paise deke kahi oor karle. Clearly its not love its l*st. Leave her before she accuse you and you get fired from your job.

a software developer
1mo
I wish home-wreckers like you get caught red handed and get beaten up black and blue.
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duskysangria
1w
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create a AI model influencer, edit your pics with the AI model.
Post on instagram and tag her....
bahut sukoon milega......

soanpari
author
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[duskysangria](username) aur isse tujhe sukoon kaise milega ??

duskysangria
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POSH se darr nahi lagta, uske husband se lagta hai

soanpari
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[duskysangria](username) uski wife mujhpe POSH nahi laga sakti baki uske husband se mai darta nahi

adorablevanilla
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St. Patrick s Hill School
Keep going if her husband is a good man she would not be having this affair in the first place it means things are not right in her marriage if she is legally married in the first place it could just be a local arrangement between her and the man that she has the kids with.

soanpari
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[adorablevanilla](username) i can be wo mujhse apni married life ke baare mai kuch share nahi karti lekin i know wo apne husband ke sath unhappy hai aur mai usse khush rakhta hu

oneconfusedengineer
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Sabse best.. agar kar sake to shadi kar le. Tujhe move on karna hai ki nhi wo tu decide kar. Chaho to raste hazar na chaho to bahane hazar..

munnabhai
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[oneconfusedengineer](username) wo bol raha hai uske mann mai feelings hai uske liye lekin iske baad bhi kisi aur ladki se shaadi karega toh uss ladki ki life kharab ho jayegi

soanpari
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1mo
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[oneconfusedengineer](username) ladki bhi tu hi dhund de mere liye ... kisne kaha hai ki shaadi karne se move on karna easy ho jaata hai??

oneconfusedengineer
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[shaddydora](username) bhai feelings ka achar dalega ye. Abhi. 3 logo ki zindagi kharab kar rha hai bina matlab ke. Casual and feelings are poles apart my friend. Agar feelings hai to casual ka nam lekar apna matlab nikalne wali bat na kare na.

oneconfusedengineer
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[soanpari](username) tujhe nikalna hai ya nhi nikalna hai wo tera decision hai. Tujhe distraction chahiye usse to option diya maine. Yaha bas batane aaya hai ki Mera chal raha hai office me. Reality me tujhe move on karne ka man hi nhi hai bcz you are enjoying this lustful life. Bas fat rhi ye ye soch ke ki uska husband aake thok na de tujhe.
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bigbroccolini
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People in India are always overloaded with work including domestic work and you are doing extra-marital affair. I think you have so much time in your hand that you are drilling multiple vaginas.

soanpari
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[bigbroccolini](username) tum jaise logo ke pas life nahi hoti na isliye 24/7 laptop ke samne baithe rehte ho
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risingrobin
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Stop the bullsh*t and walk away. Save your dignity and career. I don't know whether you are married or not.

soanpari
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[risingrobin](username) isse meri dignity aur career kaise kharab ho raha hai ??
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alphagrace
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Bro are you a teenager to catch feelings? when do you wanna grow up?

soanpari
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2w
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[alphagrace](username) kyu grown ups ko feelings nahi aati ?? tu robot hai kya?

aimod
1mo
Dude even if everyone tells you to move . You are not going to. You are here just looking for a reason to stay in the relationship. Good luck. Also you won't love her if she leaves her husband and come with you. Cause then you will be thinking who else is she sleeping with... 😅

soanpari
author
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[aimod](username) ummm you're right man..i know we both are finding reasons to stay and it's not love.. per mai kya kru ab?

beautifulsunrise
2w
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Aisi bakwaas baatein seedhe logo pr bhindoubt krwa deti h 🥲

soanpari
author
2w
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[beautifulsunrise](username) aaj kal ke time mai koi seedha nahi hota

sapphiregedian
4w
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Replace this person with someone outside , it will help you move on faster

soanpari
author
4w
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[sapphiregedian](username) how can i replace her with someone when all i think about all day is her
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spaciousmasala
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You better not indulge in such things, especially in Office.
Have this your personal rule.
Anytime she can use it for blackmailing you and it might cost you your job as well, leave apart everything else.

soanpari
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[spaciousmasala](username) wo aisa kabhi nahi karegi

shiningcheeku
1mo
currently not working
Ruk ja bhai! agar pakade gaya aur usne palti mari to sabse buri halat tumhari hogi!!!

munnabhai
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[shiningcheeku](username) palti toh maaregi hi wo obviously kyuki iske liye apni married life thodi kharab karegi wo
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vsdasd
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you should be mature enough to not discuss all these here dont behave like a college guy.

soanpari
author
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[vsdasd](username) then you should not be here as well reading my post like a college girl
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excitingpumpkin
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Start searching job and leave current company as soon as possible। After joining new company, block her from all way। She already said to keep it casual, so this sort of relationship damage complete life।

soanpari
author
2w
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[excitingpumpkin](username) yrr mai try kar raha hu job dhund raha hu lekin mil nahi rahi aur usse cut karna chah raha hu lekin mujhse ho nahi pa raha

a technical support executive
2w
Moj kro

soanpari
author
2w
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[a technical support executive](username) moj hi chal rahi hai

scaarface
1mo
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Bhai change the project/company.ek bar uske husband ke jagah lekar socho..

soanpari
author
1mo
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[scaarface](username) mai kyu sochu uske husband ka jab uski biwi khud nahi soch rhi
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sincerelemon
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He will kill you for sure

soanpari
author
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[sincerelemon](username) pehle usse pata toh lagne do

a cloud solutions architect
1mo
Switch the job bro that's the solution.Go to a new workplace and get a new start

munnabhai
1mo
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[a cloud solutions architect](username) iss time jaisi market chal rahi hai job kaha se milegi bhai ko??
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loveyouhate
3w
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Don't be a man who breaks another man

soanpari
author
3w (edited)
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@loveyouhate i am not breaking another man yrr i just want to be with the person i like

hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
bhai ek baat hamesha yaad rakhna , pyaar ek dhoka hai , bhaglo abhi moka hai

soanpari
author
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[hoofhearted](username) bhaag hi toh nahi pa raha aur bhaag ke jau kaha ?? 🥲🥲
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myjalebi
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Aviatize, Belgium
Enjoy the adventure while it lasts! Then face music eventually!
Curious, at 30 never experienced moving on ??

munnabhai
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[myjalebi](username) kya Pata kabhi usse isse pehle pyaar hi na hua ho
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numerousfern
3w
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Bhai sambhal ja yaar

soanpari
author
3w
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[numerousfern](username) kaise sambhal jau bhai advice toh de

numerousfern
3w
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Bhai.. tabhi to muskaan wale kaand ho rahe hain.. pati ko drum me daal deti hai aise mahilanyein. Tu soch zara.. tujhe bhi le dubegi ye.. aur feeling kisi aur me dhundh le bhai..iska picha chord nhi to bhari lafda hawa ho jayenge.

soanpari
author
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[numerousfern](username) meri wali aisi nhi hai aur sabki biwiyan drum mai nahi bharti varna aaj tu bhi wahi hota

potentsprouts
1mo (edited)
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Wait!! how do you get time for office romance?
I have been talking to female colleagues alot but we never get time to talk anything other than
"Call join kar le"
"Yes we need to debug"
"Code review kar de"
"kya chomu h ye bnda yar"
"Need to leave early today"
"BHAND me jaye ye company yaar"
Ofcourse I don't prefer she calling or I calling on weekends as she reminds me to client for which we work together , who I don't like at all

soanpari
author
1mo
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[potentsprouts](username) dekh mere according yeh cheezein one sided nahi chalti isme dono side se baat banti hai ... mai interested tha usme aur wo mujhme tabhi aaj iss situation mai hu

uniqueshazam
4w
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hanth pile kar lo , isse pahle ki tumhari g@nd laal pili kar di jaye

soanpari
author
3w
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[uniqueshazam](username) har cheez ka solution tere liye haath peele karna hai kya ?? 😀😀

uniqueshazam
4w
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g.nd tod di jayegi yar dost tumhari , sudhar jao . ladki to dusri bhi mil jayegi g.and tuti to jud nhipayegi dubara

soanpari
author
3w
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[uniqueshazam](username) dhund ke de fir dusri ladki

urbanbuddha
1mo
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Switch jobs and cities if possible get away from it as far as possible before you do something that hurts your conscience beyond repair

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[urbanbuddha](username) job to tab switch krunga na jab milegi mujhe.. also with catching feelings it is difficult.

derekhere
1mo
student at
Indian Institute of Technology (IIT), Ropar
From a bro to a bro!!!As soon as u get fired can you refer me for your position!!!

sabkaabaap
1mo
currently not working
[derekhere](username) loll 😂😂

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[derekhere](username) hnn bilkul bro and i hope tu bhi meri jaisi situation mai fass jaye

shiningcheeku
1mo
currently not working
marriage is scary.

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[shiningcheeku](username) mere case mai toh i dont know baki uske pov se toh hnn its scary

modiji
1mo
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kese kara thode tips toh de yrr💀

sabkaabaap
1mo
currently not working
[modiji](username) jaake crime petrol dekh tujhe bharke tips mil jayengi pure plot ke sath
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funorangutan
1mo
currently not working
This is a moment to reflect, my friend. Sometimes, emotions and desires can cloud our judgment. But true strength lies in self-awareness and mastering one's thoughts and actions. Consider this carefully, letting impulses lead you may not only affect a relationship between two individuals, but could also impact two families, and unknowingly, the trust of an innocent child. I've observed how some people treat such matters lightly, even jokingly, in certain groups. But believe me, as you grow in your career and life, you'll find that true happiness doesn't come from just earning money, achieving success, or socializing, it comes from building a meaningful life, especially with a family rooted in trust and love. You're at a crossroads. The path you're on may seem tempting now, but it holds many hidden challenges. It’s never too late to choose a better way.

soanpari
author
4w
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[brilliantladybug](username) this is soo judgmental. you dont know the full story so dont assume i am reckless or hurting others so just listen instead of lecturing.

jenkins
1mo
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Dude u r ssly ruining life,
Just think how it feels when someone is hanging out with your wife?
If i are ok with that, this is ok too.
Having affair is not cool,

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[jenkins](username) sirf meri side se thodi hai sab bhai uski side se bhi to hai.. mene koi forcefully thoda rakha hua hai usko

johnwick52525
1mo
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Bro feelings are the more deceptive than you think it will burn your life for sure . My words are harsh and so it your case .Believe me, karma is a bit..h and it always comes back .

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[johnwick52525](username) but bro im stuck here and i dont know what to do and how to get over her

p1x3l
1mo (edited)
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Jo karna hai karo bhai 😅😅
Tumko pata hai kya sahi hai tumhare hisab se

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[p1x3l](username) confused hu isliye suggestion maang raha hu

blackvenom
1mo
works at
I suggest to drink mountain dew. Kyunki daar ki aage jeet hai.

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[blackvenom](username) i dont think is situation me meri jeet hogi
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detailedflamingo
1mo
currently not working
Putting all this aside, I want to know the story. When and how did it start? 🤣

soanpari
author
1mo (edited)
works at
@detailedflamingo kyu motivation lekin hai kya meri story se taki tum bhi affair chalao apne office mai??
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vijaydeenanath
1mo
student at
Institute of Technology, Banaras Hindu University
bro ye sab krne se phle nahi aaya tere dimaag mein?

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[vijaydeenanath](username) dimag lagaya hota toh yeh sab karta hi nahi lekin feelings ka maamla hai na kya karta

insanewhale
1mo
works at
Just think before doing anything stupid you will be ruining so many lifes her life, her kids life her husband and also yours and your family .... aren't Those things looks scary to you...do whatever you can ..but don't do anything stupid..may be change job or whatever

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[insanewhale](username) toh apke according sabse sensible action kya hoga jo maine abhi lu??

shaikmoin
1mo
ex -
First point is this college group to discuss here, you have 30 years well mature guy, why are you going for Posh act, why u have not married first, I think you watch movies most and feels reel life, boss this is real life come back and do serious things not college boy activities

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[shaikmoin](username) apke world me sirf college students hi affair krte hai kya?

lightbringer
1mo (edited)
works at
Change the company that way you will have reason to break this secret affair or just tell her strictly to go back to being just friend or just co- worker

munnabhai
1mo
works at
[lightbringer](username) bhai iss economy mai kisi ko job mile toh mujhe bhi refer kar Dena 😂😂
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duskykhichdi
1mo
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Kitni nainsafi hai single log single reh ja rahe aur, married upar se with kids are getting into extra maruti affairs, aakhir 2 bacche, 1 pati, in laws ghar k kaam, office k kaam, me time in sab k baad v extramarital affairs k liye waqt Bach jaata hai, aur budget rehta hai ?

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[duskykhichdi](username) inn sab cheezon ke liye time nikal hi jaata hai... agar tum kuch karna chaho toh fir time hi time hai

nerdyyy
1mo
An Analyst
end it ofcouse.. aage jab baate bdhegi to sambhal nahi paoge or office aana mushkil ho jaega

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[nerdyyy](username) abhi bhi ho hi raha hai mushkil kabhi ldai ho jati hai toh

miraculousfern
1mo
ex -
hi...this is jeyalakshmi....feel free..msg me

soanpari
author
1mo
works at
[miraculousfern](username) kaha kru bhai?

boldtank
1mo
works at
Pyar kiya to darna kya
😅

southlover
3w
Best Of Luck 😂

soanpari
author
3w
works at
[southlover](username) thank you?? 😀
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