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Day to Day Office
1mo (edited)
a software developer
How Do I Set Boundaries Around Drinking at Work Events?
I don’t drink, and I really don’t appreciate being pressured to. I’ve communicated this several times, but some colleagues still don’t seem to respect that.
I’d rather not join these gatherings anymore....not just because of the drinking, but also because the conversations often get uncomfortable when people are drunk.
I’m just looking for a respectful way to set this boundary without making a scene. Any advice?
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confidentsoul
2w
works at
Just say - I have been advised by my doctor to stay off alcohol due to health concerns. Appreciate your understanding!
It has always worked for me. Try and let me know..
chaatuemployee
1mo
works at
itna kya hai aaram se boldo yar
burningstorm
2w
works at
You can say that I will take Soft Drinks
an engineer- customer support
2w
Bhai you should attend isse PR ache hote hai or rahi baat drink ki kh do yaar I don't drink and don't want too make it clear, if they force you just make a excuess and leave... or order a mocktail.
forgettable1
1w
works at
इसलीये मै ज्याता ही नही.. छह पार्टी ऑलरेडी हो गयी है.. सातवी आणे वाली है.
burningfightingfight
2w
works at
Be firm and respectful.
Because once you let them make you drink, they use that as precedence to force you to drink later on again.
gyaandevta
1mo
works at
peena shuru krde bhai apne boss ko bhi khul ker jawab de paega
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beautifulsunrise
2w
works at
What I usually do is take a beer can or mocktail glass & roam here & there after a while dance a little people think isko chdh gyi h than I silently leave d party nobody notice nobody asks 🤣🤣
coderji
1mo
A Team Lead
Why not try owning it? You could say, “I don’t drink, and I’m perfectly happy with that. I enjoy the company of everyone, but I’ll be sipping on something non alcoholic.” It's not rude...just setting the tone clearly
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