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Day to Day Office
2w (edited)
Janhvi kapoor got a 5 Cr car. I got a 5% hike. Life is fair?
And here we are sharing cabs, splitting zomato orders, and listening to “you need to take more ownership” from managers who won’t even approve WFH
Matlab itna padhai, degrees, night shifts, crying over appraisals all to get a 5% hike and an extra coffee coupon.
And then celebs? Wake up and get gifted crores worth of cars like it’s a Diwali hamper. Bhai humne kya hi galat kar diya career choose karke
This system is wild. Some people are born with Range Rovers, some are born explaining Jira tickets on zoom at 9 pm.
Life balance toh chhodo, ab toh logic bhi nahi mil raha

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a content writer
2w
Bhai mujhe toh cab bhi nahi milti. Main toh auto se jaata hoon aur price dekh ke Uber uninstall kar deta hoon.

boredinlife
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2w
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[a content writer](username) Cab toh privilege ho gaya hai main toh kabhi kabhi auto wale se bhaiya thoda kam bolke self-respect bhi negotiate karta hoon.

toughbutternut
2w
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Bounce Electric 1
[boredinlife](username) Lift ka naam suna hai, maine toh wo bhi kar liya..

joyfullbox
2w
[a content writer](username) bhai mujhe to koi lift bhi nahi deta
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an executive
1w
unko milta G-Wagon, humein milta feedback form. galti bas itni thi ki humne LinkedIn open kiya career banane… Insta khola hota toh sponsorship milta

boredinlife
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1w
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[an executive](username) I couldn't agree more!

corporatebabu
1w
currently not working
Bro I got 6% kya he karo itne Rs ka 😋

boredinlife
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6d
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[corporatebabu](username) hahha yaar meri mano ek land lelo🙈

an operations executive
1w
user 2
Life is fair said no working professional ever.

boredinlife
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1w
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[an operations executive](username) trueee

toughbutternut
2w
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Bounce Electric 1
Hike toh dur ki baat hai, iss corporate life mein sahi salary bhi mil jaye to thodi tasalli miley..

tidykangaroo
2w
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[toughbutternut](username) ye sapne toh hmne dekhne hi chodh die
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fluffymalpua
1w
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True, it really does feel unfair sometimes. But from a faith perspective, this life isn’t meant to be perfectly fair. It’s a test, and not everyone gets the same paper. Some get fame and money, others get struggle and unseen effort. But what actually counts is how we handle our share.
We’re not here just to collect hikes or cars, we’re here to grow through what we face. And while it’s okay to feel tired or frustrated, it helps to look at those who have even less, and find peace in knowing that our patience, integrity, and effort are still worth something. maybe not always here, but definitely in the bigger picture.
Shift the focus from comparing to appreciating, not easy but it helps.

boredinlife
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1w
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[fluffymalpua](username) Really appreciate this perspective… it’s grounding, honestly.
u are right not everyone gets the same paper, and maybe the goal isn’t fairness but growth.
That said, I won’t lie… some days it’s still hard to not feel a little disheartened. especially when the effort feels invisible and the rewards don’t match.
Thank you for the reminder. Needed it today.

timepasstiwari
2w
A Digital Markter
At this point, m convinced celebs are living in a different multiverse

boredinlife
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2w
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[timepasstiwari](username) seriously we are not even close to it

an operations executive
2w
Do they pay income tax at all ? how do these people even have money and if so can they share tax return for income

boredinlife
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2w
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[an operations executive](username) sach bolun toh mujhe toh apna Form 16 bhi guilt ke saath bharna padta hai
Salary aayi nahi, pehle hi tax katega. Fir bacha kuch toh rent, EMI, mein chala jata hai.
Aur udhar celebs? range rover gifted by a friend likh ke chill kar rahe hote hain…

therock94
2w
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So you think driving a lambo makes you successful or happy? 😆

interestingsnuggle
1w
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[therock94](username) negotiating with autowala doesn’t make me happy atleast😅

boredinlife
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1w
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[therock94](username) sach bolu toh milti hai
Ye sab peace of mind is success waali baatein na, mostly tab yaad aati hai jab bank balance low ho aur Insta pe koi Lambo mein reel daal deta hai

interestingsnuggle
1w (edited)
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[boredinlife](username) insta pe sb apne happy moments ko dikhate hai kuch log to lambo etc bhi rent pe lete hai. Better to stay away from social media unless you are earning from it. Reels mess up our mind.

boredinlife
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1w
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[interestingsnuggle](username) today I also feel thoda door rehna hi sahi hai for my sanity

creativeseagull
2w
student at
testinguniversity
I read on insta this was gifted to her by her friend... humare frnds 5 rs. ki toffee nhi de rhe h or 500 rs. udhar maang rhe h wo alag

boredinlife
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1w (edited)
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@creativeseagull hmari dosti splitwise pr dalke order in 3 equal parts

bounteoussoybean
1w
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Aur bahut se log hai, jo sadak pe paida hote hai, nahi hume toh bas ameero se tulna karna hai bas, banna nahi hai, uske liye mehnat nahi karna hai, bas rona hai ki paida hote hi apne paas itne paise kyu nahi hai karke.

boredinlife
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1w (edited)
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@bounteoussoybean it’s not really about comparison or complaining for the sake of it.
It’s just that when you’re putting in consistent effort, working long hours, upskilling, doing everything and still barely moving forward that gap feels frustrating sometimes.
It’s not that we don’t want to work hard — we already are.
But when effort doesn’t meet outcome, it’s natural to pause and ask why. doesn’t mean we don’t value what we have just means we feel stuck in that moment.

lavishsinger
4d
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Don't overthink else u will only suffer that's the harsh truth no doubt

shiningbonsai
2w
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Life is not fair for all 😣

boredinlife
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1w
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[shiningbonsai](username) and they call themselves as strugglers? it really boils my blood

favouritebhaji
1w
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stop comparing only I Know it hurts

boredinlife
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1w
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[guiltybear](username) I don't want to but insta pe dekh kr mood off hojata hai

shininglanyard
1w
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boredinlife
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1w
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[shininglanyard](username) what happened?

human1
1w
Comparing yourself with an actress? They get naked for money in movies. Will you? Who would want to watch you? Actor actress always get paid high anyway compared to educated people. No wonder how Srk is so rich

boredinlife
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1w
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[human1](username) I mean, yeah, I can’t do all those things just to become famous and I don’t even want to. But that’s not what I’m talking about here.
I’m talking about the lifestyle difference the effort reward gap.
Like if people think actors have it easy or don't “deserve” that kind of money then why do millions worship them? Why does the whole country go crazy when Shah Rukh just waves from Mannat’s balcony? Clearly, it’s not just about the work… we’ve made them larger than life.
We don’t give that kind of love to a coder who’s debugging at 3 AM, or a nurse pulling 12-hour shifts. So is the system unfair? Yeah. But did we all play a part in making it this way? Also yeah.
Not blaming celebs they’re doing their job. But all I’m saying is, we break ourselves over reviews and OKRs… and then see someone gifted a 5 Cr car for showing up at a party. Toh thoda logic hilta toh hai 😅

rajakamuni
1w
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Nothing in life is fair!! These comparisons need to stop.
People who have generational wealth was earned over generations!!! In Jahnvi's case, her entire family is involved in bollywood and probably the 3rd generation.
If you are worried about 5 % hike, its probably because your father was also worried about 5% hike and probably grand father too. (Not trying to demean any one) but in essence it takes one generation of family to deprioritise everything else and go for ambitious goals.
If it is bothering you so much, do it for your kids. Otherwise just chill. Everyone else feels the same

boredinlife
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1w (edited)
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@rajakamuni honestly, there’s a lot of truth here. generational wealth does take generations to build.
And yeah, Jahnvi’s family being in bollywood for decades means they’ve been playing this game way before we even entered the stadium. Koi shortcut nahi tha for them either just a different starting line.
That said… sometimes it’s not even jealousy.
It’s exhaustion. Like you know you're doing okay working hard, staying consistent and still, that 5% hike after 365 days of showing up feels... underwhelming. Especially when the goalpost keeps shifting higher costs, tighter appraisals, and still the same “you need to take more ownership” talk
But you're right if this bothers us so much, maybe it’s our turn to change that cycle for the next generation.
Till then… chill karte hain, meme banate hain, aur EMI time pe bharte hain
Appreciate your words, genuinely

handsomegun
1w
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Sabki kismat ni hoti na chandi ki chammach leke paida hona.

boredinlife
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1w
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[dragoon](username) Kabhi kabhi lagta hai ye "chandi ki chammach" wali baat bol ke hum bas apne dard pe namak kam karte hain. Matlab sach toh yeh hai kuch log race ke half-way pe paida hote hain, aur hum stopwatch pakad ke start line dhundh rahe hote hain

luxuriousdosa
6d
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Get a gender change and dance on instagram can buy a new luxury car every year… I bet you didn’t know this 🤣

pakchikpak
2w
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Kash humne at least tik tok pe 5 sal pehle "Teri Pyari Pyari Do Akhiya" kiya hota

a data analyst
2w
[pakchikpak](username) toh aaj pata nhi kaha hote, ye pdhai krne se kuch nhi hora wese bhi
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a social media executive
2w
don't come to my feed

boredinlife
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2w
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[a social media executive](username) I feel u this happened to me

kaamsekaam
2w
works at
range rover toh chhodo bhai, mera scooter ka petrol bharne me afat aati hai

vijaydeenanath
2w
student at
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[kaamsekaam](username) cycle chla na phir

greatking
2w
A Team Lead
Matlab hum log toh 4 years engineering plus 2 years mba plus 5 years slavery mode chalake abhi tak EMI bhar rahe hain...

boredinlife
author
2w
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[greatking](username) as ab toh lagta hai koi toh HR system reset button dabaa de…
Degree leke aaye the stability, mila mental instability.

johnwick52525
2w
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Cry as hard as you can 😂

boredinlife
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1w
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[johnwick52525](username) don't u feel bad?

kartavyakabulava
2w
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5% hike ke liye toh ab "thanks" bolne ka bhi mann nahi karta

boredinlife
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2w
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[kartavyakabulava](username) Ek time tha jab hike dekh ke treat plan hota tha…

an operations executive
2w
user 2
Bhai rona agya

boredinlife
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2w
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[an operations executive](username) mujhe bhi kal aya

ctrlz
2w
works at
India h bhai

boredinlife
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1w
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[ctrlz](username) sahi h yahan logic se zyada jugaad chalta hai, aur CV se zyada network. Survive kar liya toh successful ho, aur smile kar liya toh legend ho.
Toh haan bhai — India hai, aur hum uske asli warriors
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