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Day to Day Office
1mo
a deputy manager
My teammate does no Work on WFH days!
I work in a company with hybrid culture, we are supposed to be in office for 10-15 days a month and rest are work from home days.
Now, I personally have been a very diligent and serious employee, so even if I am on WFH, I make sure I give the dedicated hours to my work and be an asset to the company.
My teammate whereas on the other hand, is a very lazy person, he even openly tells me that WFH means leave for him and he hardly opens his laptop on those days.
The disturbing fact is, even with this attitude, he is liked by my manager and no one says anything to him.
Whereas I constantly get criticized by my manager regarding my work and he even pushes me to do more work.
How is this even fair? I cant even go and tell my manager about my teammate because I am sure he won't trust my words and he might even frame this as an attempt to play office politics by me only. I don't want to take this risk.
What am I supposed to do?
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wonderfulwater
3h
works at
It is a great model.
i spent 2 hours travelling to reach the office location and it took 2 hours to return with an extra train rush.
For me it is saving my 4 hours of daily time and I can use it for developing some new skills or physical activities which are needed.
It may vary from person to person.
5 days of continuing working from the company may end with frustration (I believe).
a deputy manager
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1h
[wonderfulwater](username) which model are you talking about here?
guywtmask
1mo
student at
Lovely Professional University (LPU)
Does he get the work done in time and fulfill the required results? If yes then why care what he does in wfh?
a deputy manager
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1mo
[guywtmask](username) he gets the basic minimum done, and even the management doesn't expects much from him, but they do have high expectations from me (
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heavenlythali
2w
Don't take things too seriously in the office just do your work and neglect the rest and keep track of what you are doing.
a deputy manager
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2w
[heavenlythali](username) but what if manager keeps poking u for less work while you see other person being said nothing even when he works lesser. this thing bothers me the most
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hilarioussage
2w
ex -
Start speaking up about pending tasks. Start taking your sweet time in finishing tasks. Question any assignments which could be handled by others and do not overload yourself. Let the management feel that there's a need for more staff or load-sharers. Prioritize your needs but yes do the rightful to your tasks. Hope that helps.
totallytoast
2w
works at
My experience is quite opposite.
I personally see WFO as a free adult daycare , gossip/chit-chat factory and for those people who want to escape from their spouses .
Best case , keep all your communication over email, stack on proof of work & do only what's required of you .
As a software dev , I would prefer to have an email chain that we can update our work (like xyz work , n hours, date, status, comments ), on a daily, alternative or weekly basis . This can be useful to avoid overwork & as proof of work.
I don't and can't be pushed to do more , as I always follow the above approach and set the expectations, priority & workload straight.
a deputy manager
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2w
[totallytoast](username) yes this approach is good of having everything documented, hours, updates, progress, everything. I am also learning to do so.
vinayataa
3w
works at
Hi,
Just ignore what others are doing and give your 100%,don't worry you will be recognise and appreciate for your work.Take care
a deputy manager
author
3w
[nidhii](username) I wish this was true, but unfortunately reality is not so simple
a research associate
1mo
Going through the same buddy, can feel you completely, the thing is ppl are so good at subtle office politics n the trick of persuasion that no one questions them, and additionally are taken as the best employee of the team, unlike us who are dedicated and sincere but no respect for the efforts.
a deputy manager
author
1mo
[a research associate](username) i heard from a old frnd that corporate is unfair and politics always wins, now I am experiencing it in realtime
primepistachio
2w
student at
Indian Institute of Management (IIM), Ahmedabad
dekh itne bhi gulaam mat bano company ke
a bi architect
1mo
It may be because the manager and your teammate have same type of personalities and/or your teammate is quite cunning and charming. Just let your manager know what you are working on and what you have accomplished. Since you are good in work, take an opportunity in working on a project, where you learn a valuable skill. Also form a good relationship with your clients and let them send an appreciation mail to you copying your manager. Dont bicker about your teammate, but highlight your work, form a friendship with other folks which have similiar profile. Dont expect anything from your manager and always be in search of more suitable team.
a deputy manager
author
1mo
[a bi architect](username) i was thinking exactly on the same lines, i feel this too that the manager wont be very helpful in this case
prettymello
1mo
currently not working
Documents your work to every meeting
a deputy manager
author
1mo
[prettymello](username) yes i do this
a senior engineer
1mo
Resign and leave
a deputy manager
author
1mo
[a senior engineer](username) abhi 3 mahine pehle hi join kra h yaar
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dadiji
1mo
works at
Maybe it’s time to stop being the backup plan. Stop overcompensating for others. Set boundaries and protect your peace.
a deputy manager
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1mo
[dadiji](username) tried that once, manger ended up scolding me for underperforming
chaatuemployee
1mo
works at
Document your work...every ticket, email, meeting. If you ever need to explain your contribution, you’ll have receipts.
a deputy manager
author
1mo
[chaatuemployee](username) already doing that sergeant!
corporatenavigator
4w (edited)
works at
Don't worry about this, you will be promoted faster. Just be a bit patient. If both of you get promoted together, you need to actually introspect about your shortcomings.
a deputy manager
author
4w
[corporatenavigator](username) has this ever happened with you too?
insideoutt
1mo
works at
What if the manager knows but doesn’t care because the other guy’s 'vibes' are better? Office dynamics are messy.
a deputy manager
author
1mo
[insideoutt](username) that's exactly what i feel
wineymoose
1mo
An Operations Manager
You're not wrong for feeling this way. What you're doing does matter. It just takes the right eyes to see it.
kyachahiye
1mo
A Software Developer
truth is, managers often reward likeability over actual work. Harsh, but in many places, perception > performance.
a deputy manager
author
1mo
[kyachahiye](username) so true
coderji
1mo
A Team Lead
Same happened with me. Eventually I changed teams, and my new manager actually noticed and appreciated my ethic. Sometimes, it’s not you....it’s the team.
a deputy manager
author
1mo
[coderji](username) how exactly did you ask for a team change? on what basis to be exact?
nerdyyy
1mo
An Analyst
been there. My lazy teammate once got promoted while I did 80% of the work. I stopped overperforming. 3 months later, management noticed the difference.
a deputy manager
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1mo
[nerdyyy](username) didnt they call you out for low performance then? I am scared if I stop performing, they might reflect on my appraisals
gyaandevta
1mo
works at
have you tried 1:1 feedback sessions with your manager? Sometimes, calmly sharing how the uneven workload affects you can open their eyes.
a deputy manager
author
1mo
[gyaandevta](username) he always ignores my inputs/feedbacks
vigneshwaranm
4w
works at
Yes, What we see
a deputy manager
author
3w
[vigneshwaranm](username) Hainji?
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