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Personal Finance
3w
a sales executive
Net worth 30cr
I have a high-paying job, solid investments, and I’ve been quietly compounding for years.
But I live in the same 1BHK, wear basic clothes, take autos over Ubers, and never flex anything.
Lately, I’ve started to notice… people treat me differently.
Like I'm "not doing that well."
Some even assume I’m struggling, just because I don’t “look the part.”
I never cared before, but now I wonder,
In a world obsessed with appearances, does being low-key make you invisible?
why is it that doing show sha is what makes people like you more ?

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a senior executive
3w
No Bro chill!.... You are going to be the next GOOGLE CEO, and then everyone will start noticing!

a sales executive
author
3w
[a senior executive](username) i am not even in tech but okay
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a manager
1w
Inner Peace> Outer Success , see celebs they leave india due to this ( VK) . Focus on your own plate. period.

a sales executive
author
6d
[a manager](username) i am try ing to but these external factor do hamper your inner peace

qarabox
2w
currently not working
Well they think if you’re rich you have to show off!! Otherwise you’re just person who just trying for…
Be happy for you & your family not for society 🥂
keep it up 🎉

a sales executive
author
1w
[qarabox](username) i am not talking about showoff its more about , making people believe that i belong

jollyflamingo
1w
works at
As @a sales executive with that net worth, you belong to places where the people judging you don't belong. Just live in peace, or find some other group where you can belong without showing off.
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tayaji
3w
A Team Lead
itna paisa kaha se aata hai?

a sales executive
author
3w
[coderji](username) kaam karke ,aap bhi kijiye , maaraj ki kripa aayegi

tayaji
3w
A Team Lead
[a sales executive](username) kaam to hm bhi krte hai per itna paisaa

a sales executive
author
3w
[tayaji](username) tayaji aap apne kis chote ya bade bhai ka paisa maro , aapka janam sidh adhikaar hai

tayaji
3w
A Team Lead
[a sales executive](username) nahi beta tayiji achi hai...

a sales executive
author
3w
[tayaji](username) toh dono milke lutto
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capitalarchitect
6d
works at
YWMS
1st Try to Value & Respect Yourself, don't seek external Validation. Then things start changing & you'll notice behavioural changes of surrounding.

a sales executive
author
6d
[capitalarchitect](username) youre right!

wealthiestman
1w
works at
See one think which all are chasing and you have got it. More than what even someone dream. So sit back enjoy life try to make fullest of your time. Give back to society in form of Knowledge, Help or support. Many are chasing money but there are so many in this world who don't even get a chance to run.

a sales executive
author
6d
[wealthiestman](username) You're right, gratitude and giving back are underrated currencies. I’m learning to pause, reflect, and share whatever little I’ve figured out. If this journey can help even one person feel seen or inspired, it's already worth it.

medhak
3d
works at
Bhai bahut jod liya thoda explore kar world.
Aur thoda family ke liye kuch kar.

emmawatson
1w
works at
If you happy in ur lifestyle then it's fine! If not then u need a change

a sales executive
author
6d
[emmawatson](username) i guess i just might have to change then

an instructional designer
3w (edited)
Why do you care? It's better to keep a low profile. People get envious and try to sabotage you. Live your life in piece and quiet.
Even if you're going for luxury trips etc. Do it but still be low profile

a sales executive
author
3w
[an instructional designer](username) i have always been low profile , kept everything to bare minimum, but now its starting to feel a bit weird

luxuriousseagull
2w
works at
Show off is a new trend these days you are living a awesome life man keep it up and ignore this show off people

a sales executive
author
2w
[luxuriousseagull](username) i have never been one to show off and i dont like it nor do i want to do it , but i am considering making certain changes .

uidesignere
1w
currently not working
Do you care about other's opinions that's what matter nothing else.

a sales executive
author
1w
[uidesignere](username) yes i do , clearly i do especially when its impacting my mental health

an analyst
3w
kitna hi paisa kama lo usko kharch krna bhi aana chahiye jo shayad apko aata nahi..paisa haath ka mail hota hai jab tak kharch na kro or nhi aata

a sales executive
author
3w
[an analyst](username) aap sikha do

hisenberg81
2w
works at
This world(not all exception will be there) always judge a book by its cover. The book(you),Make sure have more content that doesn’t require approval.

a sales executive
author
2w
[hisenberg81](username) i get that , but most best sellers also have an attractive intriguing cover

a sales executive
3w
How are people supposed to know you're better than them

a sales executive
author
3w
[a sales executive](username) money should not be the only factor

flamethrower
2w
works at
If you have people liking you for money, they aren't actually liking you. They are liking your money. Honestly, it’s better not to be liked by these kind of people at all.
Ignore the noise, be natural. That's how people will truly value you. Hold on to these people because these are your actual wellwishers.

a sales executive
author
2w
[flamethrower](username) i am literally at a point where i am not left with a lot of ppl to hold on to , hence the dilemma , otherwise i am very comfortable in the way i am , i live

pleasantfox
2w
works at
Insurance Sector
I believe you r wearing decent formals and not the cheap one. End of everything your money will give you peace of mind not your ward robe. I ordered 6000 Rs formals from Myntra and laid off next day. I returned all, will buy again when I get job

a sales executive
author
2w
[pleasantfox](username) sorry to hear that , hope you find a job soon , i do wear decent formals nothing too fancy

thefarmer
2w
currently not working
Why you want people to like you? If they do care about you. Then they should accept you the way you are. Stay who you are.

a sales executive
author
2w
[thefarmer](username) thats the problem na ppl are not liking me the way i am right now

captivatinglychee
2w
works at
Your mindset is powerful. Having money and choosing not to show off takes real strength. Why waste it on society’s shallow standards? It’s your wealth, don’t let others profit off your need to impress. Let them judge; you’re already winning.

a sales executive
author
2w
[captivatinglychee](username) i agree totally , its not about societys shallow standards , its about the fact how ppl start treating you differently

interestingsnuggle
3w (edited)
works at
What I feel is you want the acknowledgment which you will never get if you don’t showoff. Even the countries need to show they have nuclear weapons so that other countries don’t attack them. But if you showoff in a lower circle people will envy and try to harm you. Showoff in your level they will just find it natural and they will treat you their equal. Don’t extend your limits just to showoff. But if you can keep a balance then it is great. Not telling you to showoff but sometimes it is important to show people your strength to earn respect. You will feel better. People say zuckerburg etc they live a basic lifestyle but people know who they are that’s why they get respect. But nobody knows who you are so first let people identify you the way you want to be identified rest is upto the world.

a sales executive
author
2w
[interestingsnuggle](username) Appreciate your perspective, and I agree to an extent. There’s definitely a place for signaling strength, especially in the right circles. But for me, real confidence is knowing what I bring to the table without needing external validation. Visibility is important, yes, but I just prefer letting consistency and results do the talking. Quietly loud, if you will.

dhoklakhaega
3w
works at
ek company khol lo bhai mujhe usme employee rakhlo.. mujhe 1cr bhi doge to bhi chlega

a sales executive
author
3w
[dhoklakhaega](username) dhokle jaisi shakal wale ,ye kya tareeka hai bheek mangne ka
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thandichai
3w
works at
Bhai asli ameer toh chup chap rehta hai baki sab bas showoff karte rehte hai

a sales executive
author
3w
[thandichai](username) toh mai fir asli ameer hoon

chaprimunda
3w
works at
aaj kal log dikhava pasand karte hai bas

a sales executive
author
3w
[chaprimunda](username) mujhse hota nhi hai

pappupichkari
3w
works at
sadly society loves to judge by cover. your net worth is greater than their opinion

a sales executive
author
3w (edited)
@pappupichkari yeah i am realising that... sare gareeb log

respectfulzebra
2w
works at
You're actually building assets.
Don't think about other things as there's no end for that.
At least if tomorrow you don't want to continue, you may exit easily compare to other.

radiantscout
3w
works at
Nice joke 🤣

a sales executive
author
3w
[radiantscout](username) thanks bhagwaan kare aapke saath bhi ho
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