Trapped in a Marriage I Don’t Want..Help

Ladki ke papa ko aur ladki ko ye bol do ki " Mai Meetha hu" to shayad kuch ho jaaye and it's not a joke I'm suggesting you.

Bro have guts and say no or run away

You are already 32 bro. So, If she is Good & ok for you and family, then Marry her. Many people's life changed after marriage. I didn't support for lavish marriage and not encoure that too. Your PL may close after 3yrs, then you are 35 (is girls say ok for that age?). Am 37 did the same mistake, till searching alliance. So Marry, if good and ok. Important: More Concentrate on your finance (Expenditure). Because you have both PL, HME LOAN. Don't worry about past, just think about the mistake or situation and rectify it in future. Humans are ready to pay EMI instead of Savings. If free from EMI, they are not ready to save the amount. In near future your will MOVE TO INVESTMENT SIDE and have more & more savings. Soon you will be financially free. Take decision with courage. Happy married life.

You posted the same thing in grapevine too ..and everyone gave you the same advice you are getting here. So either you are just another attention seeker or just a spammer or some stubborn person who is not willing to learn at all.

ek cheez bolunga, Life decisions like marriage are too big to be decided by anyone else.

She isn't picking your call who is earning and managing but listening to families who even not going to spend life with her 🙄. How stupidity is this . Man just go and said "muje nhi karni" or if force then say" I will run away" And if they want lavish wedding then why you take loan tell them . You have your social status drama say "spend as much as you want don't expect from me". Man be safe I feel that women have some issue don't know what. that's why they forcing . Bonus tip:arrange GF .or get catch in with some woman .may there family will refuse. Because no father want her daughter to be with man who have relationship out. Gamble, drink . If they still .run away. Or your future will be paying alimony.

You want real answer? At 32, 60k Marriage .. is not the problem. No more excuses, son! Stand tall. Own your space. Get focused, Get disciplined, Take control, and Level up. Lock in. Show up.... Man the f*k up and dominate!

Being forced into a marriage is deeply unfair, and your concerns about finances and personal compatibility are valid. The situation demands that you stand firm and communicate your perspective to your parents clearly, explaining the emotional and financial consequences.

Tell your parents what the issue and she is sweet talking them. Tell their parents what is the issue and make a statement "YOU WON'T MARRY HER". This is a situation where you have to ignore how your family will feel. It's hard but you have to. Switch company. Increase your salary. Find someone you like. Marry her.