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Why Male Victims of Female Harassment Are Ignored

As a guy i never thought i will have to deal with inappropriate touching from a female colleague but it happened and no one seems to want to hear about it. When men speak up about women crossing boundaries at work we are often dismissed or laughed at. Harassment isn’t just something men do to women but men can be victims too. Why is it so hard for people to take male victims seriously?
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a senior executive
1mo
Finally female came into this role to Harass a male😉😉 Now we are dominating!!
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thandichai
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[a senior executive](username) nothing to be proud of
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[a senior executive](username) FEMINISM on THE ROCKSSSS
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vijaydeenanath
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student at
Institute of Technology, Banaras Hindu University
[a senior executive](username) what the f****?
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[vijaydeenanath](username) hawwww galiiii
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dadiji
1mo
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[hoofhearted](username) kid
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hoofhearted
1mo (edited)
A Senior Software Engineer
@dadiji kid nhi, baby
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dadiji
1mo
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[hoofhearted](username) why you here then
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vijaydeenanath
1mo
student at
Institute of Technology, Banaras Hindu University
[hoofhearted](username) abeee ooo
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vijaydeenanath
1mo
student at
Institute of Technology, Banaras Hindu University
[dadiji](username) dadiji aap kya krri hai yaha budhape m
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hoofhearted
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A Senior Software Engineer
[dadiji](username) to KID around !
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vijaydeenanath
1mo
student at
Institute of Technology, Banaras Hindu University
who will listen to us?
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thandichai
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1mo
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[vijaydeenanath](username) koi nahi sunta bhai bas sabko lagta hai overreact kar raha hu mai
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[vijaydeenanath](username) Hayee re zalim duniya
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[thandichai](username) kyunki bhai tu kar rha hai
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vijaydeenanath
1mo
student at
Institute of Technology, Banaras Hindu University
[thandichai](username) exactlly yahi hota hai sabke saath
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vijaydeenanath
1mo
student at
Institute of Technology, Banaras Hindu University
[hoofhearted](username) tu aunty hai kya?
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an operations executive
3w
yaha 2 din se khana nahi khaya hai, aur isse 56-bhog milta hai roz aur yeh roz mana kar raha hai !
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thandichai
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3w
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[an operations executive](username) bhagwan kare yeh 56 bhog tujhe mil jayega tu itna desperate ho raha hai na
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an operations executive
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[thandichai](username) 🤤🤤
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jockeyornothing
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student at
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[an operations executive](username) fir bhi wo ladki kitni bhi koshish krle kabhi bada admi nhi ban skti ☝️
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an operations executive
3w
[amanbuswala](username) +1 aman bhai
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soanpari
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[amanbuswala](username) wo nahi bann sakti toh tu banke dikha de na pehle bada aadmi .... ya fir zindagi bhar aise hi dusro ke comment section mai aurat banke ghumta rahega?
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
meri bhi ek collegue aisi , even now when i am typing this comment she is touching my arm .. kafi chep
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thandichai
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1mo
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[hoofhearted](username) tum jaise logo ki wajah se log male harassment ko joke samajhte hai .. SHAME ON YOU MAN
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[thandichai](username) bhai mai toh khud harass ho rha hoon mazaak thodi udaya , thoda pagal wagal hai kya ... aise logo ko bhi ladkiya ched deti hai ??
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thandichai
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1mo
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[hoofhearted](username) tujhe bohot pata hai mai kaisa ladka hu hainaa... sahi kar rahi hai tere sath wo ladki
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[thandichai](username) i know right ab toh mujhe bhi maza aana shuru hogya hai
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thandichai
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1mo
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[hoofhearted](username) chii bhai chii tu toh kalank hai mard ke naam pe .. thodi sharam karle bhai
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[thandichai](username) waah kalank and what not.... ladki ched gyi or idhar aake ro tu rha hai , mai kalank ... ok !
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thandichai
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1mo
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[hoofhearted](username) yes .. you are kalank aur ab jaake thoda kaam dhanda dhund varna yeh ladkibaazi hi karta reh jayega life time
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[thandichai](username) kaam mere pass hai dhanda badiya chal rha hai , tum apni sunao ?
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thandichai
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1mo
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[hoofhearted](username) mai bhi badiya bhai bas rab ki meher hai ki apke jaise ajeeb log mil jaate hai mera timepass ho jaata hai
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an executive
1w
this is so real bro. male victims barely get space to speak up without being mocked or doubted. harassment is wrong no matter who it's coming from. hope more people start taking this seriously soon. stay strong.
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thandichai
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6d
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[an executive](username) are you also a victim ?
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tayaji
1mo (edited)
A Team Lead
youre overreacting
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thandichai
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1mo
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[coderji](username) really?? harass hona aur uske baare mai awaz uthana overreact karna hota hai??
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[coderji](username) nhi sir aap nhi samjoge, you need be hot to understand this
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tayaji
1mo
A Team Lead
[hoofhearted](username) haa aap hi hoor ke pare ho duniya me
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tayaji
1mo
A Team Lead
[thandichai](username) kya pta normal ek friendly touch ho..office me ese hota rehta hai but you are overthinking
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[coderji](username) thank you , see even you can admit it , without even seeing me .
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tayaji
1mo
A Team Lead
[hoofhearted](username) apki baato se lg raha hai kitne hoor ke pare ho ap
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thandichai
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1mo
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[hoofhearted](username) hnn bhai tujhse toh aag nikal rahi hai na jaise
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thandichai
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1mo
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[coderji](username) hnji coderji mai hi hu hoor ka para
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thandichai
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1mo
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[hoofhearted](username) bhaiya ji aapke pas bohot lagta hai duniya ka sara khali time hai berozgar ho kya
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tayaji
1mo
A Team Lead
[thandichai](username) apko to bola hi nahi mene
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bobexperience
1mo
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Indian Institute of Management Sirmaur
It should'nt ofcourse do you really think most of the female harassment cases are taken seriously by the coprates?
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thandichai
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1mo
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[bobexperience](username) i know the mentality of people working in corporate .. sabko lagta hai male hi villains hai and females are always the victim
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johnwick52525
1mo (edited)
Tum bhi POSH lga do 😄
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a deputy manager
1mo
[johnwick52525](username) never seen a man raising posh against woman in corporate, is it even possible 😭
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anshitanegi
1mo
ABE ye author fraudd hai saaala
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[anshitanegi](username) waaah... new hot take !!
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anshitanegi
1mo
[hoofhearted](username) hn wo m bhi hot hu na😌
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hoofhearted
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A Senior Software Engineer
[anshitanegi](username) areeyyyyy ... #mee too .. come lets make a band together
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anshitanegi
1mo
[hoofhearted](username) what kind of brand you wanna make😶‍🌫️
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hoofhearted
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A Senior Software Engineer
[anshitanegi](username) not a brand a band , band of boyss
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anshitanegi
1mo
[hoofhearted](username) bro m ladki hu
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hoofhearted
1mo
A Senior Software Engineer
[anshitanegi](username) i dont see gender
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a product manager
1mo
been there man. I once told HR about a similar incident and they brushed it off like I was overreacting.
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thandichai
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1mo
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[a product manager](username) kabhi kabhi lagta hai iss cheez ka koi solution nahi hai
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futuristicalberto
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It's a typical mindset,man!.. Women has all the advantages in our society (mainly india)that men rarely get one of these advantages. You can't change their mindset. Women don't have the ability to detect who is good or right. And most of The news we see crime against women is about men. So, their brain automatically make perception about men is negetive. so we men often don't mind if they touch or not because we know they are harmless. But touch from a men towards any women even by accident is considered a bad, sometime more than a bad. That' s the fact. That's why today's most of the men don't have a word to talk to a girl for sometime. However, It's getting really difficult to get a life partner. All up to the girl for choosing their life partner, there is no chance for men. That's a sad reality.
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soanpari
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[futuristicalberto](username) Bro I get where you're coming from but blaming women’s ‘mindset’ ignores the real issue... respect and communication. It’s not about who has more advantages but it’s about how we all treat each other. Generalizing that women can’t choose ‘right’ guys just makes it harder for everyone. Maybe instead of complaining focus on improving yourself and how you connect with people. Life’s not just about waiting for a girl to pick you.... you gotta show why you’re worth it
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thandichai
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3w
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[futuristicalberto](username) True bro, society’s double standards are real and women get protection and sympathy while men get misunderstood and judged harshly. It’s tough for guys to even talk to girls without being seen as a threat. No wonder many men feel lost when it comes to finding a life partner.
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sneakytinda
1mo
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Get some proof about it and then take action. Things can easily go wrong and your harasser can play victim and screw you up.
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thandichai
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1mo
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[boogs](username) how can i collect evidence of this ??
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lucifernovachrollo
2w
Simple, Because men are the people who make fun of people talking about women harassing men, because it feels like it's not masculine enough.
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thandichai
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2w
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[lucifernovachrollo](username) so what you mean to say is yeh jo ho raha hai justified hai ??
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rustlingbamboo
1mo
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women in male dominated fields
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thandichai
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1mo
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[rustlingbamboo](username) not something to be proud of
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eaglelion
4w (edited)
Such incidents will increase in the future. It was the duty of women to give proper education to their children and make their future bright. But nowadays women have to be equal to men which is nothing but slavery. I will not be surprised if more such incidents happen in the future. RADHE RADHE
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thandichai
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[eaglelion](username) are you high on something ya dimaag hi kharaab hai ? radhe radhe
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eaglelion
3w (edited)
[eaglelion](username) This is a reality.We do not consume intoxicants like you, we are Sanatanis.
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am1developer
2w
Laws should be gender neutral. Please raise your concern strongly to your manager as well as HR.
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thandichai
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2w
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[am1developer](username) i tried but nobody took any action and just told me to brush it off
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fearlessscotch
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Did you file a complaint to the HR? an official complaint?
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thandichai
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3w
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[fearlessscotch](username) i told my HR but unhone serious nahi liya
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enthusiasticfrog
2w
Bro you are in kpmg still this happened, doesn't these big mncs have gender neutral laws 😳
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thandichai
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[enthusiasticfrog](username) i thought they had but now that i am experiencing such a thing i know gender neutral laws jaisa kuch nahi hota har jagah bas womens ko favour dete hai
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wonderfulblackberry
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Optum
fairness isn’t always 50/50 or 70/30. It’s about mutual respect and intentional decisions. Maybe sit with him and review both your goals
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thandichai
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2w
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[wonderfulblackberry](username) how is this comment of yours helping me in this situation??
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supremecat
2w
currently not working
Equality isn’t about uplifting one gender, it’s about treating all genders equally. Harassment is harassment, no matter who does it. Male victims deserve to be heard too. It’s time HR leads the way by creating safe spaces where every voice is taken seriously.
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thandichai
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[supremecat](username) but HRs dont take reports like these seriously and many more victims like are suffering because of this
It is always taken up lightly but when same thing happens to a female then instantly posh gets applied and you are out
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thandichai
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1mo
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[human1](username) soo true bhai itni partiality hoti hai especially corporate mai ... male female kuch nahi hota harassment is wrong chahe wo jo bhi insaan kare
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modiji
1mo
RELAXX GUYSSS, AADMI LOG HUMESHA HI GALAT MAANE JAATE HAI
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thandichai
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1mo
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[modiji](username) lekin koi iss baare mai kuch bolta kyu nahi hai ... aise hi hamari aawazein dabb jaati hai
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a sales executive
1mo
men have boundaries too.
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thandichai
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1mo
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[a sales executive](username) soo true lekin log yeh baat nahi samajhte hai unn boundaries ko cross kar dete hai
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an educator
1mo
double standards are real. If the roles were reversed, that woman would've been suspended instantly. But for men? No one bats an eye.
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thandichai
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1mo
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[an educator](username) hnn yrr yeh system hi kharab hai
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a data analyst
1mo
tu thanda aadmi hai kya?
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thandichai
author
1mo
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[a data analyst](username) hnn thoda sa 😀tujhe kya
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a data analyst
1mo
[thandichai](username) tune use bola kyu nhi kuch
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thandichai
author
1mo
works at
[a data analyst](username) kya bolu usse ? ki mujhe touch karna band kar mujhe aacha nahi lagta
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handsomesake
3w
works at
Women be like mard ched sakte hai to hum kyu nai we are equal😂
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thandichai
author
3w
works at
[handsomesake](username) bohot galat soch hai yeh
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confidentrose
1mo
works at
I being a Female, seriously oppose this. I feel we just need to #Behave Human. Respect for each other.
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thandichai
author
1mo
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[confidentrose](username) i know isme gender ka koi role nahi hota what is wrong is wrong
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flamethrower
1mo
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Please elaborate all the details so that the public may know if you are overreacting or not. "Inappropriate touching" is subjective. What may seem inappropriate to you may not be inappropriate to your female colleague.
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thandichai
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1mo
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[flamethrower](username) if i feel disgusted by that touch then i know its bad and i dont need anybody saying that i overreacted because mai koi baccha nahi hu jo choti choti cheezon ka bawal banau ... if you were in my place and had to experience what i am going through then you would know what is appropriate and what is not
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a security engineer
1mo
Coz everyone trying to be in good book and politicaly correct and avoid unnecessary drama and You'll find a lot of SIMP bro it's a lot more...
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thandichai
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1mo
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[a security engineer](username) aise baaton pe chup rehke agar good books mai aate hai toh i dont want it
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luxuriousseagull
4w
works at
Because society is female centric
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thandichai
author
3w
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[luxuriousseagull](username) this needs to change or else hum males ke liye future mai bohot dikkat hone wali hai
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contentoswald
4w
works at
Partik Transport
Love you all friends
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thandichai
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3w
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[contentoswald](username) pyaar maangne aaye ho yaha?
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nerdyyy
1mo
An Analyst
totally agree with you. harassment is harassment...regardless of gender
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thandichai
author
1mo
works at
[nerdyyy](username) lekin yeh bas mai HR ko kaise bolu
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vigneshwaranm
1mo
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Because, the world's sometimes not accepted. Make the way for Evidence
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thandichai
author
4w
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[vigneshwaranm](username) evidence kaise collect karu lekin
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bigodebu
1mo
.km Yitc y
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thandichai
author
1mo
works at
[bigodebu](username) kya kehna chah rahe ho tum
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absentperpendicular
1w (edited)
currently not working
Shame
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thandichai
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1w
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[absentperpendicular](username) of what?
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