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Adulting
3d
an executive
Love only happens if the CTC is right these days
Every time I fall for someone, either they break my heart or say they need to focus on their career and finances.
I get that career is important. But why is love always the last priority? 10 hours at work, 2 hours commuting, and the rest of the time is eaten up by stress.
Sometimes I feel like having feelings is a luxury. Everyone wants love, but when the time comes, it's either the salary or stability excuse.
But I never asked for a package, just a little effort and emotion. Sometimes I think it's easier to stay away. But honestly, deep down, I still crave that real connection that goes "with" a career, not "after" it.
I really don't understand what Adulthood is all about? Why can't love, money, and career all come together?
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a team lead
1w
don't pretend as bholi seedhi as if jispr acchi salary ni hai tum ldkiyan un ldko se shadi krlogi
kartavyakabulava
1w
works at
[a team lead](username) Thank you for saying this. My ex left because I didn’t have a car or a good-paying job.
sabmohmayahai
1w
works at
Bro love nahi, sabko life partner + investment plan chahiye
an executive
author
1w
[sabmohmayahai](username) Sahi bola! Dil se pehle demat account check karte hain log.
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a data analyst
1w
Pyaar ka toh pata nahi par lagta hai sabko job description ke saath partner bhi chahiye
a social media executive
1w
Kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki pyaar bhi ek aur responsibility ban gaya hai.
awesomesnail
1w
works at
unpopular opinion CTC and stability is imp for me
an executive
author
1w
[awesomesnail](username) sab ke liye hai. bus balance hi nahi milta lyf mai
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a pharmacist
1w
I'm in a long-distance relationship and it’s dying slowly. Both of us are working so hard, but no time for calls, no time to talk.
timepasstiwari
1w
A Digital Markter
My last situationship ended exactly like this he said he couldn't balance emotions and workload 🥲 Like I’m not asking for a weekend getaway to Paris, bas ek reply de do timely
an executive
author
1w
[timepasstiwari](username) haa ye sab aise hi hote hai. dramebaaz hote hai ye ladhke
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marketingboss
1w
works at
Job + Jaan + Jazbaat, sab balance karna is the real skill.
an executive
author
1w
[bhagjaa](username) Aur irony yeh hai ki CV pe toh bas 'multitasking' likha hota hai.
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iamthequeen
1w
works at
CTC theek nahi toh love pending. Welcome to adulting 101
an executive
author
1w
[iamthequeen](username) And even when CTC gets better, tab tak toh emotional availability chutti pe chali jaati hai
compulsorykulfi
1d
works at
us.ok.com
High-Paying Jobs Hub:https://us.ok.com/city/cate-jobs/?utm=car-se
anshitanegi
1w
ex -
Career aur love ke beech ka balance sabko confuse karta hai kabhi lagta hai ya toh bank balance hoga ya emotional balance
an executive
author
1w
[anshitanegi](username) bank balance hoga toh emotional balance apne aap aayega. paisa sab kuch hai beta
vijaydeenanath
1w
student at
Institute of Technology, Banaras Hindu University
That said, for many people financial pressure is real
an executive
author
1w
[vijaydeenanath](username) idk. meri lyf mai hi kyu aise log aate hai
modiji
1w
works at
pyaar ek dhokha hai, mehnat karle beta abhi bhi mauka hai💀
an executive
author
1w
[modiji](username) hahaha. ye sab kehne mai acha lagta hai
cigerrateaddict
1w
works at
Sab corporate ban gaye hai, dil nahi bacha kisi ke paas 😤
an executive
author
1w
[cigerrateaddict](username) corporate majdoor. paisa hoga tabhi toh koi aur laa paaengey
stylishjasmine
1w
works at
I choose career over love twice.
an executive
author
1w
[stylishjasmine](username) tabhi aapki shaadi nahi ho paari
ecstaticbanana
1w
works at
You’re not asking for much, just basic presence. But even that feels premium now.
an executive
author
1w
[ecstaticbanana](username) Exactly! Aajkal toh feelings bhi EMI pe chal rahi hain.
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